Verbatim Books inside San Diego bookshop

You Deserve This

Let go of the guilt. Say yes to yourself.

You’ve spent years showing up for everyone else.
Your family. Your coworkers. Your friends.
You’re the planner, the helper, the behind-the-scenes here who keeps it all running.

But when it comes to spending on yourself – your rest, your joy, your well-being – something stops you.

Maybe it’s guilt.
Maybe it’s fear of being seen as selfish.
Maybe it’s that voice in your head that says, “You’re fine. Other people need more than you do.”

Let us be clear:
You are allowed to take a break.
Not because you’ve earned it.
But because you’re human.

Why You Feel This Way

Many women are carrying what’s called the mental load – the invisible labor of remembering, managing, supporting, and anticipating everything for everyone. Even when we’re physically resting, we’re mentally spinning.

This kind of constant output isn’t sustainable.
It leads to burnout, resentment, disconnection from ourselves.

And yet, spending on a weekend away can feel…indulgent.
Like you’re breaking some unspoken rule.

But here’s the truth:

Rest is not a reward.
It’s a requirement.

What Happens When You Say Yes

At Cozy Girls Getaways, we handle everything so you can finally put the mental load down.

When you arrive, the schedule is already planned.
The meals are already prepared.
The space is already cozy.
You don’t have to make a single decision, except which book to read first.

All you have to do is let yourself be cared for.

This is for the woman who:

  • Feels guilty for spending money on herself
  • Puts everyone else first
  • Is always “fine,” but never fully rested
  • Misses the version of herself that wasn’t so exhausted
  • Longs for peace, connection, and quiet joy

Your Rest Is Worth the Investment

You don’t need permission to take care of yourself.
But if you’ve been waiting for a sign – this is it.

We’ll take care of everything – including you.
You just show up, and we’ll handle the rest.

Book Your Spot Now

Limited rooms available for our next retreat in Galena, IL

You are not selfish for wanting this.
You are wise. You are worthy.
And you are so deeply welcome here.